The story
Who heals the healers?
Who coaches the coaches? Who holds space for the people who hold space — a place with a regular fire, a regular table, and a regular welcome, where the people passionate about the same thing you are can find each other and become a community? That's us. That's what this land is for.
How it began
A year of villages, then a vow.
In 2010 Eli spent a year in Israel moving through intentional communities — an educational ecovillage, a moshav, five kibbutzim — and came home carrying one certainty: he would build one of his own in America. When he met Destiny, she loved the idea before she loved fire spinning, and then she loved fire spinning before they ever bought the land.
The burns taught them the rest. At regional gatherings and Love Burn they ran a theme camp called Birthday Camp — where every day is your birthday — hosting the fire performers and learning what it takes to make strangers feel expected. Then one ordinary day back home, two friends showed up dressed like it was a music festival, and said: what if every day was?
So the first gathering on this land wasn't called a party. People arrived and were told welcome home, and in the closing circle they said they could feel the love between the two who live here — which is why every gathering since has been called a heartwarming. Friends began asking to hold space here for their own gifts. The fire spinners got a jam. The yoga teachers got a night. The sound practitioners, the acro folks, the workshop leaders — each got a fire to gather around. It grew the only way anything real grows: by people bringing what they had.
The keepers
Destiny & Eli.
Everyone in town seems to know it already: Destiny and Eli lead Vena Cava, and coming here means coming to their home. Five members live on the land full-time and keep the hearth; these two hold the vision. If you arrive as a stranger, you'll leave knowing their names — that's usually how the first hour goes.
The ledger
A hundred heartwarmings and counting.
Three years of opening the land. Not a claim — a count.
- 30 fire jams
- 30 potluck game nights
- 20 community garden parties
- 10 yoga nights
- 10 sound baths
- 10 NVC workshops
- 7 skillshares
- 2 firewalks
- 2 retreats
- 1 acu-den
- 1 microgreens workshop
- 1 resonant bodies
- 1 first heartwarming
…and the ones that resist counting.
What membership is
Presence is membership.
There's no form and no dues. If you've stood on this land at a gathering, you're a member at large — the act of being present is the whole application. What we're building is a circular economy of gifts: inside an event, everything is already yours — the food, the music, the teaching, the fire — because the donation at the door bundles the value of everyone's gifts the way a bigger burn does. Presenters, chefs, DJs, and vendors get supported; nobody inside pays for anything twice.
Members plant beds in the garden, join the weekly potluck game nights, and shape what happens here by showing up with what they carry. In-house membership — actually living on the land — is a different thing: rare, slow, and made of relationship. There are only a few rooms and a skoolie, and if it's meant to happen, you'll know, and so will we.
The gym on-site is an in-house benefit — and a standing invitation: if you want to join Eli for a workout, reach out. A monthly community workout is coming to the rhythm soon.
Soft launches
Present it here before you're ready.
Have a talk, a workshop, a skillshare, a healing practice you haven't dared to offer the city yet? Soft-launch it here, in front of the warmest room you'll ever face — and the coaching is free. Eli sits with you for an hour after you present: what landed, what to sharpen, how to carry it further. Whatever your workshop earns at the door, we split it evenly — the land and the strategy are our gift to your beginning; your courage is yours.
When you're ready for more than an hour, Elignment runs eight-week cohorts — weekly two-hour themed group sessions plus an hour of one-on-one creative strategy.
Reach the keepers
Say hello the right-sized way.
If we haven't met yet, say hi on Instagram or Facebook — and then come to a fire jam, because that's where hellos become names. If we know your face already, write to us directly: hello@venacava.live.